donderdag 9 januari 2014

Be inspired with The Ultimate Love and Wisdom Story Stan Rams




The Ultimate Love and Wisdom Story

Just do what your heart tells you that must be done. This may not be happiness, but it is greatness. Don't complain aboutmisery, but honour the beauty that still remains. No one has ever become poor by giving.

The wisdom of the prudent is to understand his way: but the folly of fools is deceit. In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two but It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun. It is sad not to love, but it is much sadder not to be able to love since a a kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. A kiss is a rosy dot over the 'i' of loving so tell everyone who admires you and loves you, and I they will tell you who you are. A woman's mind is cleaner than a man's: She changes it more often so we can do great things on this Earth, small things with great love so would you rather have eyes that cannot see; ears that cannot hear; lips that cannot speak, than a heart that cannot love? How many words have you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you If you do not act on upon them Disappointments are inescapable, but love is always there when life lets us down and lifts us up.

Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.

Wisdom is relative. When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity so get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth. Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee. Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. Love is grand; divorce is a hundred grand or do you you love someone as they are, and not as you’d like them to be? Ccome to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. Love is the emblem of eternity; it confounds all notion of time; effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end .All you need is love but a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt but dont get addicted to and watch your weight. Kiss as often as you can by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous cause In dreams and in love nothng is impossible. Create the life and love and give to thee, the more infinite. True love stories never have endings cause no man is truly married until he understands every word his wife is NOT saying Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired a place you can touch a woman that will drive one crazy and thats in the heart. .With the ancient is wisdom; and in length of days understanding. The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt at the gate: he who loves finds the door open. Be always kind in thinking and create profoundness; kindness in giving creates love


Close your eyes and feel, If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise. Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essentialto your own.The most precious possession that ever comes doesn’t make the world go round as Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. Close your eyes and feel, If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?” For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it for every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it as Love is friendship set on fire ans at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.If you have love, you don’t need to have anything else If you don’t have it, it doesn’t matter much what else you have.We cannot really love anybody without whom we never laugh so join your hands, and with your hands your hearts. Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get only with what you are expecting to give, which is everything cause there is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. so we must work to resolve conflicts in a spirit of reconciliation and always keep others' interests in mind.Moral ethics are the basis of world peace. We need an inarable combination of material and internal, or spiritual, progress. Love and compassion arising with a clear recognition of the importance and rights of others will reach even those who would do you harm so put this question to yourself: should I use everyone else to attain happiness, or should I help others gain happiness?

But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy

He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace. Gravitation is madness and can not be held responsible for people falling in love. There is always some madness in love but there is also always some reason in madness and there is no remedy for love but to love more. Hearts are not had as a gift, but hearts are earned and it is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost all your money. Money can’t buy love, but it improves your bargaining position of othersuntil it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can’t utter .Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning but ”The great question… which I have not been able to answer… is, ‘What… does one need? Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. t is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come. Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend - or a meaningful day.

If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. There are only four questions of value in life What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same: only love . To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world. Love is the greatest of heaven’s blessings so How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?

If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must Man be of learning from experience.

How much better is it to get wisdom than gold! and to get understanding rather to be chosen than silver. Hate leaves ugly scars; love leaves beautiful ones. In this life we cannot do great things We can only do small things with great love. Love is to love someone for who they are, who they were, and who they will be in the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.  Love is a fabric which never fades, no matter how often it is washed in the water of adversity and grief as w are all born for love It is the principle of existence, and its only end. People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel.

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Be not wise in thine own eyes and realize the importance of our voice when we are silenced. One child, one teacher, one book and one pen can change the world. Education is the only solution. Education first. Be peaceful and love everyone. There was a time when women social activists asked men to stand up for their rights, but this time we will do it by ourselves. "So, today we call upon the world to change in favor of peace and prosperity. Let us shield ourselves with unity and togetherness We cannot all succeed when half of us are held back. It is better to be beautiful than to be good. But... it is better to be good than to be ugly.

To apply yourself and your ideas in reality is like a proof-test for what we think is right and will work. If there is no action and therefore no testing in reality, the words or ideas themselves are of no real sustainable value.

By concentrating on the positive instead of the negative, you'll gradually find joy returning to your life. When you understand that bitterness is a choice, you'll learn to reject it and choose peace and contentment instead. You take the last step by enjoying and loving other people again. There's nothing more attractive than a joy-filled, loving person. When you make that the emphasis of your life, who knows what good things might happen?

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it so if you want to be married, a bitter attitude can scare off a potential spouse. Women are made to be loved, not understood. Think about it. Who wants to become involved with a person who is nasty and cynical? You wouldn't want a spouse with those qualities, would you? Your bitterness inadvertently punishes your family and friends. Eventually they'll get tired of tiptoeing around your touchiness, and they'll just leave you alone. Then you'll be more lonely than ever. They love you and want to help. They want the best for you, but bitterness pushes them away. No one has the right telling you that you have every right to be bitter. One love, one heart, one destiny. You can’t put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories.Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it . Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination so a wildly misunderstood although the highly desirable function is that  the heart weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker

Love is life and if you miss love, you miss life as a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person. “It takes just a moment to tell someone you love them, but it takes a lifetime to prove it. Being married It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life so when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams and counting the years. The heart has no wrinkles as friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never. How absurd and delicious it is to be in love with somebody younger than yourself. Everybody should believe in the compelling power of love so you  can live without money, you cannot live without love. Always believe something wonderful is going to happen. A loving doe, a graceful deer—may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love. Women should be respected as wel. Generally speaking, men are held in great esteem in all parts of the world, so why shouldn't women have their share? Soldiers and war heroes are honored and commemorated, explorers are granted immortal fame, martyrs are revered, but how many people look upon women too as soldiers?...Women, who struggle and suffer pain to ensure the continuation of the human race, make much tougher and more courageous soldiers than all those big-mouthed freedom-fighting heroes put together

Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.

There are three things that amaze , how an eagle glides through the sky, how a snake slithers on a rock, how a ship navigates the ocean, how a man loves a woman. Marriage doesn't guarantee an end to loneliness. Millions of married people are lonely too, still looking for a level of understanding and acceptance their spouse doesn't give them. The ugly truth is that loneliness is an inescapable part of the human condition, as even Jesus found out. He was the most well-adjusted person who ever lived, yet he knew times of deep loneliness too. If you accept the truth that loneliness is unavoidable, what can you do about it? There is no fear in love but perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love so If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. If you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world. If you want to be loved, be lovable. Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love youso kiss and hug to make s the heart young again and wipe out the years.

Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance.

Dont think about love as a loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge One reserves his true and deepest love not for the species  in whose company one finds electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company one feels tenderly drowsy as love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins..

The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise.

A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love but a very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love.  A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea as absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones.  Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives. All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage so If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there? Do all things with love as t's useless to hold a person to anything he says while he's in love, drunk, or running for office. Meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love Life is the flower for which love is the honey as Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.

When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.

Peace comes from within so not seek it without and don't look back, and regret, that too often when you loved, you did not say so. Love can sometimes be magic but magic can sometimes... just be an illusion but always remember Love conquers all. Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other and does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up and does not dominate; it cultivates.like a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination and more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could. Love is not a game that two can play and both win, a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else. Any perspective we have on anything is only a relative truth. There are always both (or more) sides of any story. An objective perspective or an absolute truth is very hard or maybe impossible to see. But to be aware of this and to be interested to see another perspective from another person can be very mind-opening and valuable. The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows. If we are not authentic and truthful to ourselves, we build a wall around us that eventually we have to tear down again. It is then literally a resistance to the reality and our own nature where we can hide some time, but life has a way to show us our own faults in the end. To be true to the best one knows means to come from our own best knowledge and not buy into something outside ourselves blindly, always asking: is this really true to what I know?

For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it.

We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do. If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change. Love is a clous made with the fume of sighs. Love is all we have, the only way that each can help the other. It is possible to consistently and authentically keep motivated so Try not to become a star of success, but rather try to become someone of value. Success is not relavant without honor so If at first you don't succeed, do it like your mother told you as e Eighty percent of success is showing up and climbing the ladder of success, be sure it's leaning against the right building but if you at firstdon't succeed, you're running about average and without enthusiasm. be like a toy balloon among children armed with pins. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans so catch the trade winds in your sails, explore dream discover .there is no point at which you can say, "I can not"

Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success. Love is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. Precious treasure and oil are in a wise man's dwelling, but a foolish man devours it. I might as well take a nap." so don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally while others wake up and work hard at it.He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; whose life was an inspiration; whose memory a benediction. Clever and attractive women do not want to vote; they are willing to let men govern as long as they govern men so in order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the next time. Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. Those who have succeeded at anything and don't mention luck are kidding themselves. We need courage to overcome our fear of rejection. We need courage to reach out to other people. And most importantly, we need courage to recognize that we do have the choice to assign loneliness to a minor, infrequent role in our life so have faith, hope and love but the greatest of these is love.

Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.

We need to go through the time when we are just not good at what we do. Yes, it feels weird and maybe sometimes a bit frustrating, but be assured that it is a normal part in the cycle of becoming successful. Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.Love your neighbor as yourself however, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband to be satisfied. Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power. Success has made failures of many yet some aspects of success seem rather silly as death approaches so judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. By loving it so gain the respect of the intelligent men and the love of children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had so you have to fill what's empty. Empty what's full. Scratch where it itches.

All we are exact the same in the beginning.The truth is that live is the most wonderful gift of Love.

Do you really think that you can go confidently in the direction of your dreams and live the life you have imagined? The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed. At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want The meaning of life is to give life meaning. Who is like the wise? To see things in the seed, that is genius and who knows the interpretation of a thing? A man's wisdom makes his face shine, and the hardness of his face is changed. Wisdom is with the aged, and understanding in length of days.

All good qualities must be sown and cultivated. We can’t expect to change overnight from an ordinary person into one with high realizations.To control negative physical and verbal actions, it is necessary to get at their root, the mind, and tame it. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them. We must generate courage equal to the size of the difficulties we face and try te be kind always. The very purpose of spiritual practice is to help others. Taking a realistic view and cultivating a proper motivation can also shield you against feelings of fear and anxiety. We must generate courage equal to the size of the difficulties we face. The very purpose of spiritual practice is to help whether we like it or not, we're all connected, and it is unthinkable to be happy all by oneself.In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher from this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come. Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries.

Be brave, listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future. Pray that success will not come any faster than you are able to endure it. By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. A wise man is full of strength, and a man of knowledge enhances his might, for by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory. Wisdom is too high for a fool; in the gate he does not open his mouth. What is the purpose of life? The ultimate question. And what an elegant answer! I find this quote to be incredible empowering and inspirational. The meaning of life is exactly what you decide it to be. You are free to choose your own destiny. So choose wisely, invest some time to figure out what you want in life and how to get it.

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up.

Take responsibility to make a good decision and make the most out of your life. To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.” Be one of the people who live. Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. Let no one deceive himself. If anyone among you thinks that he is wise in this age, let him become a fool that he may become wise. For the wisdom of this world is folly with God. For it is written, “He catches the wise in their craftiness,” and again, “The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise, that they are futile. The key is to keep company with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best but never dissapoint your friends and tell the truth so you don't have to remember anything and do not forget that who lies for you will lie against you. No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. Be honest and you may be sure there is one less rascal in the world for the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding; .

In our struggle for freedom, truth is the only weapon we possess.

A half truth is a whole lie and will easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, strangely and beautifully, rapture possesses you when you have taken the scrape and left out the lie. Those who think it is permissible to tell white lies soon grow color-blind. A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent. The least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousand fold. The most dangerous untruths are truths moderately distorted. Dare to be true: nothing can need a lie: A fault, which needs it most, grows two thereby.With lies you may get ahead in the world - but you can never go back.You got to tell yourself the truth. It won’t do you any good if you are rationalizing your life’s situations just in order to avoid the necessary changes and feel a little more happy. This approach would backfire eventually. If you are truthful to yourself, even if it is uncomfortable, you made progress on your way to really improve the situation. You have to be aligned with the truth. It’s the only real way to be free.

Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness

Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.The ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new. Honesty is the rarest wealth anyone can possess, and yet all the honesty in the world ain't lawful tender for a loaf of bread. The hardest tumble a man can make is to fall over his own bluff cause A lie has speed, but truth has endurance. When leaders attempt to create buy in around a new solution or idea for their team, it’s common to encounter resistance–or at least be subjected to conflicting opinions or proposals. Your response to such feedback will either further cultivate the highly engaged culture you want, or swiftly bash its head in with wrecking ball results.  Instead of pounding your authoritative chest with, “Look, this is just the way it needs to be done,” try “That’s interesting. Can you share with me your thinking around that?”

Be the change you want to see in this world. Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment

Democracy is a device that insures we shall be governed no better than we think that we deserve so we need to be responsible for ourselves and our environment and invoke the positive change we desire most. That is strength. And it’s empowering, because we are in control! We are the ones that make it happen. Be curious and seek to understand their point of view to shift from confrontation to conversation and most important; alignment. Ask questions such as, “What else could be possible?” “Before we make a final decision around this, what other facts might we want to consider?” “What’s the common ground that we share?” When you stretch the truth, watch out for the snapback. Truth is the most valuable thing we have, so I try to conserve it. Honesty is never seen sitting astride the fence so If you have ever managed anyone, or had the pleasure of being the recipient of a type of management style, you know how ineffective and unsustainable tactics are  A lie may take care of the present, but it has no future.  Truth fears no questions because  here are only two ways of telling the complete truth - anonymously and posthumously.Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom.

The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams. Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.

The essence of living in the present moment, the Now, is focusing the mind here and take attention away from thinking about past or future. The present moment is all there ever is to experience life directly. Past and future are only concepts of our mind and therefore are good for learning from the past or conceptual planning when it is useful, but after this there is no need for them. Especially not to dwell in them and get stuck there in the mind by constant thinking loops. Success is 100 percent love and will never be a big step in the future, success is a small step taken just now. Some people succeed because they are destined to, but most people succeed because they are determined so always bear in mind that your own resolution to success is more important than any other one thing. Success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get. Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom. People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it so start doing what you like.

How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.

There exists a great leadership paradox. That is, leaders create the very problems they want to avoid most. Continually putting out fires and solving their people’s challenges result in the frustration of not having people who are self-motivated or accountable for their goals. Repeatedly providing your people with quick solutions trains them not to be accountable. You send the message to your people that they can rely on you to fix their problems for them–and the real irony is, when your solution doesn’t work, it’s then your fault. If you have willpower, then you can change anything. It is usually said that you are your own master.Whatever steps, however small, one can take towards learning to reduce the influence of the negative emotions can be very helpful so we need to consider how our actions, in affecting the environment, are likely to affect others and therefore we need to develop a good heart, real appreciation, love and compassion for others to improve. Meet hostility and suspicion with kindness. Where ignorance is our master, there is no possibility of real peace. Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't anyone who doesn't appreciate kindness and compassion. With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world.

Love is the answer, and you know that for sure; Love is a flower, you've got to let it grow. Passion is when you put more energy into something than is required to do it. It is more than just enthusiasm or excitement, passion is ambition that is materialized into action to put as much heart, mind, body and soul into something as is possible.The wise of heart will receive commandments, but a babbling fool will come to ruin. What fulfils you? What brings you joy? What are you passionate about? Where are you dreams? What do you love doing? If you want to become great at something, you must do what you love to do, meaning where your passion is. What is it, that you just can’t let go off once started. Maybe it is something creative of productive. If you do what you love, you don’t really work anymore. When doing it you feel uplifted and fulfilled, it goes nearly effortless. Some successful people I met said, they would pay to do what they do. You can take your qualities and find careers that require those things you are good at. For instance, if you’re a caring person who relates well with people, perhaps a career in nursing is something suited to you. There will be times where studying for nursing that it gets difficult because you’re not good at mathematics. Maybe. But ultimately, a good nurse is someone who cares for another person, and relates to that person well because patients feel that care.

Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can't lose.

Focus your mind on reading every day for at least 30 minutes in a field that is helpful to you. This includes the specific area you want to be successful in or general books that help you to improve and fit your personal style in different areas of your life. Taking off your Chief Problem Solver hat makes your people more valuable and sharpens their problem solving skills. Next time you’re asked for a quick solution–don’t give in and take the bait! Besides all you’re really doing when imparting all of your wisdom and expertise is building robots or managing in your own image, rather than tapping into theirs but, as it is written, “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him”— these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God. For who knows a person's thoughts except the spirit of that person, which is in him? So also no one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we might understand the things freely given us by God. And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual. Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you did it or not.

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

Write a daily journal and reflect on yourself and your progress in life. Why not give the same service to our mind? Keep your inner space clear by getting the things out of the head and reflecting on them, and so making them conscious. Then you can actively choose what to do about it the next day. Sometimes it is even enough to see something as it really is, this gives you inner freedom and keeps you from getting crowded with energy-wasting thoughts and feelings. Review your day and write down, what is important to you and what you want to improve. Also write down your successes. Reflecting on your daily – even small – successes gives you the support you need to build on it with the next step. Success in live is a progress, it is a sequence of right steps taken, improving something daily until it is something great. By keeping track of your days you also commit automatically to improve yourself, just by writing and seeing where you are and where you want to be. You can also look back later and see how you progressed and what was important to you, which is really fun. Once a week, preferably every weekend, you sit down and review your goals to see, if they make sense or if you can improve them. Also plan your next week in advance during this period. For every day set one or more major tasks you will accomplish for your goals. You can write this down and then lock these tasks into a calendar or a 2do-list for the next seven days. This will increase your focus even more, will make sure you do what you set out for you achieve and will accelerate you towards your goals.

No success or failure is necessarily final

Socialize proactively with your friends and family. People we like or even love are surely among the most important things in our live. If you grow out of school or college, most of the time we lose track of the good friends we had. But it does take only little to keep these nice people in our lives and it is the same for them. They love to be around you and you love it to be with them. A great way to do this is take certain times a week, and do something together that you both love. If you are not in the same city, then give each other a call or do something over the internet (a project or play a game you both love). Internet Social Networks are also a way to stay in touch, but it is important to do it actively and remind yourself (maybe in your daily journal or in your goals, remember habit 3 and 4? :)) I have a lot of friends and since I stay in touch pro-actively with them, my life got richer in the social level and I like it. How have you handled something like this before?” “What’s another solution or approach that might work in your situation now?” It is wise to keep in mind that no success or failure is necessarily final. How can they say your life is not a success? Have younot for more than all the years got enough to eat and escaped being eaten? Never forget Spent your time on Social Questions. What is the matter with the poor is. Poverty; what is the matter with the rich is Egoism and Uselessness. How can you make this world a better place for everyone?

The lips of the wise spread knowledge; not so the hearts of fools.

In life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action. The wise will inherit honor, but fools get disgrace. There's not a business anywhere that is without problems.Business is complicated and imperfect. Every business everywhere is staffed with imperfect human beings and exists by providing a product or service to other imperfect human beings so love is the answer and all you need to overcome. As you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in all earnestness, and in our love for you—see that you excel in this act of grace also. A true revolution of values will soon cause us to question the fairness and justice of many of our past and present policies. On the one hand we are called to play the good Samaritan on life's roadside; but that will be only an initial act. One day we must come to see that the whole Jericho road must be transformed so that men and women will not be constantly beaten and robbed as they make their journey on life's highway. True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar; it is not haphazard and superficial. It comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring. A true revolution of values will soon look uneasily on the glaring contrast of poverty and wealth. With righteous indignation, it will look across the seas and see individual capitalists of the West investing huge sums of money in Asia, Africa and South America, only to take the profits out with no concern for the social betterment of the countries, and say: "This is not just." It will look at our alliance with the landed gentry of Latin America and say: "This is not just." The Western arrogance of feeling that it has everything to teach others and nothing to learn from them is not just. A true revolution of values will lay hands on the world order and say of war: "This way of settling differences is not just." This business of burning human beings with napalm, of filling our nation's homes with orphans and widows, of injecting poisonous drugs of hate into veins of people normally humane, of sending men home from dark and bloody battlefields physically handicapped and psychologically deranged, cannot be reconciled with wisdom, justice and love. A nation that continues year after year to spend more money on military defense than on programs of social uplift is approaching spiritual death

Your own resolution is more important than any other one thing

You are not made wise by the recollection of your past, but by the responsibility for your future. The key is to spent less than you earn. Most people spent all their money they have each month and most of the time even a little bit more. And so it comes, that there is always too much month left at the end of the money. Of course there are two ways to get free of financial problems. The first is to earn more, and the whole blog is about enabling you to do this as a side effect of successful and fulfilled living. But the other additional way is often overlooked . Paying yourself first means that you save 10% of your income at the start of a month and then invest it into something that fits to you. The investing is a little more difficult, but not that much. The one thing you must do now, is that you create a second money-savings-account (something that gives you a little more return as a normal bank-account) and transfer 10% of the monthly income immediately to it. That is your wealth-building machine and you won’t touch this money but invest it later. It is one of the best ways to really build wealth.

Success is shy - it won't come out while you're watching

When the best leader’s work is done the people say: We did it ourselves. Successful enterprises are usually led by a proven chief executive who is a dictator. The man who has done his level best, and who is conscious that he has done his best, is a success, even though the world may write him down as a failure. Success is often the result of taking a misstep in the right direction. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you. If at first you don't succeed, failure may be your style so If at first you don't succeed, love all evidence that you tried. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then never give up. There's no use in being a damn fool about it. At first you do succeed - do not try to hide your astonishment and love to be growing. Success is blocked by concentrating on it and planning for it.... Success is shy - it won't come out while you're watching. Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go so there is only one success - to be able to spend your life and freely bloom - that is the definition of success.

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.

Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success. Always bear in mind that your own resolution is more important than any other one thing .Success is to be measured by the obstacles which he has overcome. Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom so it is wise to keep in mind that no success or failure is necessarily final. The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed. We think in opposites but  who has done his level best, and who is conscious that he has done his best, is a success, even though the world may write him down as a failure. Eighty percent of success is showing up.Competition brings out the best in products and the worst in man. Our major obligation is not to mistake slogans for solutions.

One who is wise is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is reckless and careless

Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. There are so many men who can figure costs, and so few who can measure values. For all of its faults, it gives most hardworking people a chance to improve themselves economically, even as the deck is stacked in favor of the privileged few. Here are the choices most of us face in such a system: Get bitter or get busy. To be successful, you have to have your heart in your business, and your business in your heart. He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; whose life was an inspiration; whose memory a benediction. Most leaders tend to have their binoculars on backwards. They inadvertently minimize what their people are doing well, while magnifying their weaknesses and failures. As a result, teams learn what their managers don’t want them to do, but never really know what behaviors and best practices their leaders do want them to consistently engage in, develop and sustain.

Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice

Music in the soul can be heard by the universe. Singing and playing instruments converts a culture from looking to avoid the fear driven consequences into a culture of pleasure focused, positive motivation towards a shared, collective goal. “Why didn’t you hit your quota?” becomes “How will you adjust your strategy and approach so that you can hit your goals moving forward?” “Why didn’t you close that deal?” transforms into, “What can you adjust or fine tune so that you can achieve the results you want the next time you’re in that situation?” Those who have succeeded at anything and don't mention luck are kidding themselves. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.

The words of a man's mouth are deep waters, but the fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook. That man is successful who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much, who has gained the respect of the intelligent men and the love of children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had. Pray that success will not come any faster than you are able to endure it. Wisdom rests in the heart of him who has understanding, but what is in the heart of fools is made known.

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.



Something in human nature causes us to start slacking off at our moment of greatest accomplishment. As you become successful, you will need a great deal of self-discipline not to lose your sense of balance, humility, and commitment. Manage people how they want to be managed. Leaders are the first to admit that it’s the tougher conversations they tend to avoid. They procrastinate dealing with employee performance until they get so frustrated, their positive coaching style gets replaced with destructive reactionary explosions instead. By learning to manage people how they want to be managed, no conversation is a tough conversation. Learn how your people want to be managed by asking better questions. “What barriers do you need to be mindful of that could get in the way of you reaching your goals?” How can I best manage and support you so that you can achieve your goals?” “How can I hold you accountable in a way that will sound supportive rather than negative?”What will matter is not your success but your significance.

Can you find love on the Internet? Millions of people believe you can.

They want to click a mouse and discover lifelong bliss. In the real world, however, it’s not that easy to find love, unless we turn to someplace unexpected: God. When you find love from God, you find pure, unconditional, indestructible, eternal love. Love is the beauty of the soul and the child of illusion and the parent of disillusion, the delusion that one woman differs from another. Love is the flower you've got to let grow. and  the foundation from which your decisions about your life should be made. Love is the joy of the good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the Gods. Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat.Love is the poetry of the senses.Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar. Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex and love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old. Love is what you've been through with and tells you something new about yourself.

Get competent at something you love, anything you have a real passion for

It helps if it’s also interesting for other people, since then you could get their appreciation on top. Essentially you will be self-confident when you are competent in your field and subsequently have successes. Those accomplishments are one of the main sources to naturally build up self-confidence. So one of the best ways to build self-confidence is to put your mind into a topic that you really like and get good at it. You will have fun while doing it and you will be proud of yourself. Feeling really proud of yourself is the best indicator that you are on the right track. Because only you know your own standards and when you fulfill them, you get this feeling of sincere proud. That gives you self-confidence but don’t make the mistake of becoming a geek who thinks this one topic he mastered is all there is. Desperately seeking love and going to any length to receive it is off-putting. Instead of attracting people to us, it drives them away. Needy people are scary. Others believe they could never do enough to satisfy a needy person, so they avoid them. On the other hand, cold, aloof people seem unapproachable. Others may conclude that it wouldn't be worth the trouble to try to break down the cold person's wall. Love requires sharing, and cold people seem incapable of that. Confident people are the most attractive, and the best place to find confidence is from God. Confident people, both men and women, are fun to be around. They enjoy life more. They give off an enthusiasm that's infectious.

Love isn't something you find indeed as Love is something that finds you.

Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place. Love means not ever having to say you're sorry. Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within. Love takes up where knowledge leaves off. Love that is not madness is not love. Sometimes it's hard to be a woman giving all your love to just one man. Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye. Stand by your man. Give him two arms to cling to and something warm to come to.Sympathy constitutes friendship; but in love there is a sort of antipathy, or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other, and both together make up one whole. Take away love and our earth is a tomb. The art of love is largely the art of persistence since the best proof of love is trust. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other because there is no limit to the power of loving. There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved: It is God's finger on man's shoulder.

Work like you don’t need the money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching.

Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity so when you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks. Where there is great love, there are always wishes. Where there is love there is life. Who so loves believes the impossible. Who would give a law to lovers? Love is unto itself a higher law. Wose to the man whose heart has not learned while young to hope, to love - and to put its trust in life so you don't have to go looking for love when it's where you come from.You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love. You become what you think about or in other words: what you focus on grows in your life and from what you take your focus away from diminishes

The mind used correctly can create happiness. But used poorly i.e. blaming, egocentric, negative, blinded by ambition or separation, it will create unhappiness. Training the mind is the key.



The mind is not everything. Some of the worst mistakes of life have been haircuts. Sure, but what we think is not what we become so If you take a genuine interest in people, if you consistently look for the good in them and love them you truly will stand out from the crowd. They'll see something in you they've never seen before. Do not waste time looking for the perfect love or success. What the world really needs is love and less paper work whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same when love is not madness, it is not love. The degree of loving is measured by the degree of giving love is of two kinds, one which commands, and one which obeys. The two are quite distinct, and the passion to which the one gives rise is not the passion of the other. The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves. The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. Love's greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred.

Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared so apply your heart to instruction and your ear to words of knowledge.

Rieu Andre success story the ultimate love guide

Once the realization of the miracle of love and souls wonderful music is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky. One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving. People need loving the most when they deserve it the least so say what you will, 'tis better to be left than never to have been loved. Someday, after mastering the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love, and then, for a second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire. Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.

Love, compassion and concern for others are real sources of happiness. We all have the right to lead happy lives. Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible, happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe. If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them. If you have a particular faith or religion, that is good. But you can survive without it. If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher from this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come. Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives.

Remember! that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.Happiness comes through taming the mind; without taming the mind there is no way to be happy. When you generate a reasoned desire for others to be happy, your humanity increases in strength. The more contact we have with one another and the more we come to understand each other’s values, the greater will be our mutual respect.Enemies teach us inner strength, courage and determination. I feel that a sense of compassion is the most precious thing there is. The point of our existence is that, as human beings, we live purposeful, meaningful lives.Even a small experience of altruism brings a measure of mental peace right away. If you focus only on yourself and neglect others, you will lose; but you will gain if you value others as much as you cherish yourself. The practice of love can be expressed in one sentence: ‘Be kind, help eacother and never do not harm others’.

Love & peace to you all


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Highest Aim

Highest Aim

After the bitter tears
heaven again washed away
the coloured earth.

Heaven smiles again
giving us all a new chance
to fulfill our highest aim
within each days new rebirth.

To open hearts to love
and peace from the
Spring of Love

Stan Rams


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After the bitter tears

heaven again washed away
the blood coloured earth.

Heaven smiles again
giving us all a new chance
to fulfill our highest aim within
each days new rebirth.

To open hearts to love
and peace to let the sun
of Love and Peace
shine for us all.


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de aarde

is gekleurd met het bloed
van al tevelen
door regens weggewassen
maar niet de zonde
en het verdriet

de zon schijnt
geeft de mens een nieuwe kans
om het hoogste doel op aarde
te vervullen
het hart te openen,
om samen te werken
aan een wereld
waar iedereen
gelukkig met elkaar
mag zijn

Stan Rams

Stan 2010

Stan 2010
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Zalig Nieuw Jaar dat zit zo dus in elkaar


Beste bezoekers,

Gelukkig Nieuwjaar

We vieren het nieuwe jaar maar je hebt mensen, mensen die zitten en mensen die lopen,en mensen die staan maar ook mensen die niet of nooit stil kunnen zitten sommigen doen zelfs meer dan een lopend mens omdat ze meer dan zitten van alles zitten te doen zonder van hun stoel af te gaan met oud op nieuw en ook het hele jaar maar je hebt ook mensen die niets doen dan zitten en mensen die geld verdienen met zitten en daar zitten er wel heel wat van in de kamer te pitten of te zitten en dan zijn er nog mensen die vast zitten en die komen niet vrij, tenminste zolang ze zitten en dan zijn er nog mensen die vast zitten aan elkaar en niet meer los kunnen komen snapt u nou hoe dat in elkaar zit? dat er mensen zijn die aan elkaar of een ander zitten zonder vast te zitten terwijl ze eigenlijk vast moesten zitten en niet vrij mogen zijn omdat de mensen die zitten te zitten niets ondernemen en niet van hun zitplaats af willen gaan en zo zijn er weer mensen die het niet meer zien zitten, omdat de zitters niet voor hen willen opstaan, en hen niet zien zitten en zo zijn er weer heel wat mensen,die de zitters niet meer zien of ze nu lopen zitten of staan en het liefste de zitters van hun zetel af zouden slaan maar zo zijn er gelukkig ook zitters die opstaan waarvoor ze zijn gaan zitten en hun zetel afstaan aan mensen die het zien zitten om de mensen die het niet meer zien zitten weer aan het lopen te krijgen zodat ze niet meer hoeven te zitten zonder van hun plek af te moeten gaan? snapt u,hoe dat in elkaar zit dat er mensen zijn die liever niet van hun plek afgaan en zo niet dan ga er maar eens lekker voor zitten tenzij u liever wilt lopen of staan of de ogen sluit omdat u het anders ook niet meer ziet zitten..en in dat geval is het raadzaam er niet teveel over in te zitten dat u het niet meer zou zien zitten omdat u anders niet meer voor een ander zou kunnen opstaan en alleen nog maar zou blijven zitten zonder te kunnen opstaan voor de zitters die voor de lopers zijn opgestaan, en ook wel weer eens lekker wil zitten zonder steeds het gevoel te moeten hebben telkens voor een ander op te moeten staan, en daar word een mens echt wel moe van dus blijf maar eens lekker zitten en geniet van je plek zodat je straks uitgerust eens lekker kunt opstaan en het weer helemaal ziet zitten voor het nieuwe jaar.

Ik wens u allen liefde geluk en een goede gezondheid
toe voor nu voor altijd en het nieuwe jaar!

Gelukkig Nieuwjaar

Stan Rams

Bea Moslima razend populair


Zwarte kleding, hoofd- doekjes en boerkas zijn razend populair in Nederland en een ware hype, en zo zien we op deze foto Hare Majesteit Beatrix in een exclusieve uitvoering van de internationaal befaamde modeontwerper Mohammed Jan Job Ali in haar prachtige outfit verlost van het altijd weer verplichte koninklijk "hoedje" trots poseren voor onze camera.


Trots op de Moskee

TON( Trots op Nederland) ziet Nederland het liefst gevuld met kleurrijke bloem- en tulpenvelden, windmolens, kerken, en dijken die je met een vinger kunt dichten als er een gaatje in zit, een polderland bewoond door mensen die op houten klompen lopen, kaasdragers, Zeeuwse meisjes, jolijke Bartjes en Dik Troms, een land van melk en honing, dol op Calve, Friese Vlag en Zaanse mayonaise en een land waar helaas geen plaats is voor "Kous Kous", "Kebab", een rappende Ali B naast een Moskee.

BeaMoslima voor haar nieuwe paleis

Ze weten niet wat ze missen, bovenstaande foto-simulatie geeft aan hoe schitterend mooi Paleis Soesjesdijk eruit zou zien na de grote multiculturele verbouwing en hoe blij Beatrix zou zijn met haar nieuwe onderkomen ,en zegt U eens eerlijk?

Wie behalve Geert Wilders, zou nou niet echt heel erg trots op Nederland zijn, met Beamoslima en zo een geweldig mooie blauwe moskee?


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Bloesem in de Limburgiastraat te Heerlen

R.I.P Limburgiastraat!


Deze prachtige boom, en nog veel meer bomen in de wijk Meezenbroek ,stonden zo mooi voor mijn kunst-atelier annex appartementje op nr 203 aan de Limburgiastraat, helaas is al dat vertrouwde schoons voorgoed verdwenen.

Woningbouwvereniging Woonpunt zorgde er vervolgens voor dat ik een geweldig mooi appartement kreeg toegewezen.

De sloop van de 7 flats aan de Limburgiastraat heeft vanaf de eerste gesprekken met de bewoners ruim twee├źnhalf jaar in beslag genomen

“We zijn onderweg enkele tegen-slagen tegengekomen”, geeft John Scheilen van Woonpunt aan. “Uit nader onderzoek bleek dat er asbest in de dakconstructies verwerkt zat en dat vraagt extra expertise en zorg bij verwijdering. Daarnaast was het niet gemakkelijk om voor alle bewoners en gezinnen uit de flats vervangende woonruimte te vinden. Het aanbod in de wijk is echter beperkt. Maar het is gelukt. Iedereen heeft een mooie nieuwe woning.”

Op de vlakte die is overgebleven zal binnen ongeveer 4 tot 5 jaar aan de Limburgiastraat een nieuw centrumhart verrijzen, met luxe- woningen, parkeervoorzieningen, supermarkten en andere kleine winkeltjes. Met eraan vast een natuurpark. Het is bekend dat de Aldi er komt. Aan invulling van de overige winkels en bovenwoningen wordt nog gewerkt.

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Info: Mijn MSP


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Love & peace to you all Anna Frank